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Vigilance Has No Place In a Healthy Relationship After your partner criticized you you don't feel good. You will make it an agenda to look out for faults in your partner so you can get your revenge. Nothing now escapes you eye. What used to be nothing is now glaringly obvious. When you found something you will pounce on your partner. The result is always the same; I don't even have to tell you what it is. Having been attacked your partner will do exactly what you did, she will be looking for an opportunity. It wouldn't take long, now you have another fight on your hands. Over time it will get worse and worse and you are into a vicious circle that is hard to get out of. It will be a matter of time before a breakup will happen. You know this cannot go on like that, but you feel the need to protect yourself. Let me tell you something - you don't need to protect yourself from someone you love. Be not vigilant for the faults of your partner; be vigilant only for the goodness of your mate. Look for the good things, you partner did a lot of things to your benefit - did you notice that? And all you want is what is good for her, then why do you treat her like an enemy? Go through all her faults, one by one. After each one say to yourself - I will ignore this, this is not even worth bothering about. Or say - this is a misunderstanding, she is not like that. Say throughout the day - I will stop my negative perception of my mate. She is the angel of my dreams, I am happy to have her and together we are the happiest couple on earth. Don't believe this? Try it and see. Remember - be vigilant only for the goodness of your mate. Did you suffer a breakup? Click Here to learn how to get back together.
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